Bottleneck Series: Finding Mea

Preacher

Pastor Caleb Hankin

Date

March 8, 2026

Location

Milpitas

Language

English

Summary

Exploring how we search for meaning in life through money, relationships, and ultimately in our relationship with God, guided by Solomon's wisdom.

Sermon Outline

Introduction to Obstacles 00:00:00

Discusses obstacles that hinder our relationship with God and the importance of obedience.

Meaninglessness without God 00:10:00

Explores Solomon's findings in Ecclesiastes about the futility of pursuing meaning without God.

Finding Meaning in Money 00:20:00

Highlights how chasing money leads to isolation and lack of fulfillment.

The Importance of Relationships 00:30:00

Emphasizes the need for meaningful relationships and support in our lives.

Marital Insights 00:40:00

Discusses principles for healthy marriages and the importance of spiritual intimacy.

Ultimate Meaning in Christ 00:50:00

Concludes that true fulfillment is found in a relationship with Jesus, not in material things.

Scripture References

Again, I saw futility under the sun. There is a man all alone, without even a son or brother. And though there is no end to his labor, his eyes are still not content with his wealth: “For whom do I toil and bereave my soul of enjoyment?” This too is futile—a miserable task. Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. For if one falls down, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to help him up! Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? And though one may be overpowered, two can resist. Moreover, a cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Ecclesiastes 4:7-12

More than that, I count all things as loss compared to the surpassing excellence of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ

Philippians 3:8

Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.

1 Corinthians 7:5

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men, yet they cannot fathom the work that God has done from beginning to end.

Ecclesiastes 3:11

Whatever you do, work at it with your whole being, for the Lord and not for men,

Colossians 3:23
Questions from This Sermon

What is the main message of this sermon?

The sermon teaches that true meaning and fulfillment come from a relationship with God, rather than worldly pursuits.

How does money affect our relationships?

Chasing after money can lead to neglecting meaningful relationships and ultimately results in isolation.

What role do mentors play in finding meaning?

Mentors provide support and wisdom that help us navigate challenges and deepen our relationship with God.

How can we ensure a healthy marriage?

A healthy marriage involves spiritual intimacy, communication, and keeping God at the center of the relationship.

Topics

Meaning
Relationships
Obedience
Fulfillment
Marriage