One Flesh

Preacher

Pastor Caleb Wan

Date

April 26, 2026

Location

San Leandro

Language

English

Summary

Pastor Caleb discusses the profound meaning of marital unity in Christian faith, highlighting roles of love and submission based on Ephesians 5.

Sermon Outline

Introduction 00:00:00

Pastor Caleb introduces himself and the purpose of the sermon, celebrating marriage.

Scripture Reading 00:02:05

The sermon references Ephesians 5:22-33, discussing the roles of husbands and wives.

Understanding One Flesh 00:03:45

Explores the biblical meaning of 'one flesh' in marriage and its implications.

Role of Wives 00:10:01

Covers the call for wives to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ.

Role of Husbands 00:14:57

Discusses the husband's responsibility to love his wife selflessly.

The Bond of Marriage 00:21:19

Explains the unity in marriage as a reflection of the relationship between Christ and the church.

Living as a Testimony 00:28:30

Encourages Christians to visibly display their faith in their relationships.

Scripture References

Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to Himself as a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Indeed, no one ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church. For we are members of His body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church. Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:22-33

Be imitators of God, therefore, as beloved children, and walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant sacrificial offering to God.

Ephesians 5:1-2

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.

Philippians 2:3

Going a little farther, He fell facedown and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me. Yet not as I will, but as You will.”

Matthew 26:39

By this we know what love is: Jesus laid down His life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.

1 John 3:16
Questions from This Sermon

What does 'one flesh' mean in marriage?

'One flesh' refers to the profound unity between husband and wife, representing their bond in the context of Christ and the church.

How should husbands love their wives?

Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church, prioritizing their needs.

What is the role of a wife according to the sermon?

Wives are encouraged to submit to their husbands in a manner similar to the church's submission to Christ.

Topics

Marriage
Submission
Christian Unity
Sacrificial Love